1. Fisting is something that happens when the stars are aligned and the chemistry is allowed to get really high and things are really passionate and two bodies really open up to each other and the bodies actually start having sex with each other, instead of just the people.

    It can’t really be a quickie and it happens when you have space, time and creature comforts. It’s not forced. It’s not pushed. It’s not punching. It’s not always a slow process and gentle, but it’s always this warm, opening, serene, really emotional, and connected sex-act. And it’s skin-on-skin contact, which for queer people is like going “balls deep” so to speak.

    Paraphrasing Jiz Lee, American society is much more lenient about violence than they are sex, so in movies you’ll see people punching each other, but you’ll hardly ever see a bare breast. So it’s only natural so when we think of fisting we think of violence, pain and aggression. The fist is supposed to be the same size and shape as the human heart, so for me I think of love and beating passion.

    — International Fisting Day: Courtney Trouble Says Put Your Dukes Up (and In) Against Censorship, by Sandy Bottoms, SW Weekly

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