My partner and I humerously refer to fisting as a punch in the cunt but don’t be mislead, it isn’t innately an agressive act…unless you want it that way, the same with any sexual act. This idea that fisting is obscene and deserving of censorship perpetuates the misconception that fisting is a violent/aggresive sex act when in fact more often than not it is by necessity a slow and incredibly intimate sexual interaction and requires communication, trust and consideration between partners. Anal sex often gets the same misconception of being an aggressive act, but it is not more aggresive than vaginal penetration…in fact often it is slower and more intimate because the passasge is narrower.
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Shaking a Fist at Censorship